Dear Sex Witch: A Lesson in Squirting
Dear Sex Witch,
All my sexual life I have wanted to be able to squirt. This has never happened for me and I was wondering if there’s something wrong with me or if it is possible?
Sincerely,
Mermaid who wants to experience the ocean for the first time
Dear Mermaid,
Ah yes, squirting. Looks amazing, doesn’t it? The body just exploding with pleasure! Unfortunately, everyone’s anatomy is not made the same, so some people squirt every time, some people squirt with just the right kind of stimulation, and some people never squirt at all. All three of these variations are completely ‘normal’. In fact, there really isn’t any such thing as ‘normal’ when it comes to sex. We are all as different as snowflakes, and just as beautiful.
However, there are some things you can try, if squirting is on your bucket list. I can’t guarantee success, but if anything is going to work, it’s the following:
Dual Stimulation
Prolonged, consistent, and dedicated stimulation of both the G Spot and the clit at the same time. This can sometimes take a long time, and required dedication either from you or your partner. Sometimes you can split the task where you take the clit stim, and your partner worksthe G Spot. Then lean in for the journey, relax, and see what happens.
The Pure Wand
This toy is an industry standard and has great results. It’s a stainless steel curve with round balls on either end for deep and intense G-Spot stimulation. Many people report squirting for the first time with this toy.
Finally, do you ever feel like you have to pee during sex? This is often the feeling that comes right before squirting ( The ‘is squirt pee? debate can be saved for another time). People who squirt recommend leaning into that feeling, and even pushing a little to push it out! It sounds a bit scary but maybe it’s worth the risk?
Anyway, give the above a try, but if it never happens for you, you might not be that kind of mermaid, but that’s okay. We all have different superpowers ;)
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